Inevitable

 It's sad how pain can slowly change someone. It can turn a very forgiving and loving person into a heartless one. 

It's sad when a gentle soul will be forced to care less or end up not showing any love and kindness because he has been hurt a lot. Sometimes, when somebody feels too much pain in his chest, it pushes him to change his behavior around those who hurt him. It pushes him to guard his heart better, it gives him a reason to be a different person, and it forces him not to trust anyone again. 

It can also change the way he sees life, knowing that he didn't deserve everything that he had suffered. Pain is temporary, but once you get the taste of it, the fear of getting hurt even more or the fear of experiencing it over and over again will be constant.

Pain can turn people into a stronger version of themselves, but it doesn't happen in an instant, and it also doesn't happen to everyone. There is this kind of pain that can literally ruin someone's life. While it is true that pain will teach someone a lesson, there is also a kind of pain that loses someone's sanity and his hope in life. 

No one wants to be in pain; however, it is inevitable. 

It is sad how people change because of pain, but we can't really blame them, especially when we have no idea about everything that they have suffered and endured alone.